Listen to Dr.Braccio discuss with Tony Conley how many adult children inappropriately manipulate grandparents to take their responsibilities in escort mersin raising their children. He says grandparents need to determine what is reasonable support and what is manipulation by their children to get them to take on their responsibilities.
Dr. Braccio specifically mentioned the following manipulation techniques used by adult children:
1. Guilt- “You don’t care for us.”
2. Selfish- “You are selfish and only thinking of yourself.”
3. Lack of Love- “You do not love me or your grandchildren.”
4. Inconsiderate- “You are inconsiderate.”
5. Hurt and Angry Feelings- “You hurt me and make me angry.”
6. Withholding Approval- “You aren’t my parents. Loving parents would not treat us like this.”
7. Negative Comparison- ” You are not at all like Aunt Mary and Uncle Harry who love their children and grandchildren.”