09-30-2025- Persons who hate have made the choice to self-destruct themselves psychologically, physically, and spiritually. Hatred is like an acid that slowly destroys the person’s outlook and ability to
function effectively in life. The true tragedy of hatred is that it clearly destroys the hater far more
than the person who is hated. The person who is hated goes on living their life and often could
care less they are hated by someone. The hatred can be so deep that the person will not give it
up and is willing amazingly to experience all the negativity that comes through being hateful. I
think it is safe to say that most persons do not like being around persons who are haters. It is
even biblical that an angry person does foolish things. Typical bad outcomes for a person who
hates is that they are actually allowing another person to live inside them and take destructive
control over them. The idea that someone would actually allow someone to control their
emotions is hard to believe but haters allow this every day. Other destructive parts of being a
hater would include a type of psychological poisoning where a person allows themselves to
have the good parts of them poisoned and pushed out through this destructive hate. Another
casualty to hatred is a person not having compassion for persons because their hatred does not
allow them to see the good in people and only allows them to see negativity. It also is true that
haters ultimately cannot love themselves because their external hatred is such that it consumes
them psychologically and does not allow them to enjoy life or love anybody or anything. For
clarification, I am not talking about the person who just has some anger, and it comes and goes
based on how they are treated in interactions with persons. No, I am talking about the
destructive hatred that destroys the person‘s psyche and often ruins their relationships with
those they would reasonably want to have good ones. The solution for hating is to recognize it is
far more destructive to the hater than it is to the person being hated. Persons need to love
themselves and others and to find the good in life to lead happy lives and extinguish the hatred
that is so destructive to themselves and those they encounter. This is not an easy thing to do if
someone has been a hater for long periods of time. However, it is something we must do so we
can have a strong physical, emotional, and spiritual self. There is no other reasonable choice if
one looks at the choice of negativity by being a hater versus being a person who seeks love and
forgiveness in self and others. Even if forgiving is the goal of a person for their best mental
health, the minimum is to let real or perceived wrong done to you go and recognize allowing
your hatred of others to live within you is unacceptable and only causes you great
psychological,physical and spiritual havoc.
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